Thursday, November 26, 2009

A Grateful Heart Amidst Grief


“All happy people are grateful, and ungrateful people cannot be happy. We tend to think that it is being unhappy that leads people to complain, but it is truer to say that it is complaining that leads to people becoming unhappy. Become grateful and you will become a much happier person.” - Dennis Prager



I'm not always as grateful as I should be, but today I'm grateful for many things.

My husband is #1.  He loves, protects and works very hard for us.  I'm especially grateful right now for the way he rushed to my side at the emergency vets and took care of everything while I was a sobbing mess.


I'm very grateful for my children.  Three wild boys who push my patience to the edge, but are still the cutest, bestest boys ever.


My extended family and friends who are all supportive and wonderful.  


My beautiful dog has passed, but I'm grateful she was apart of our family for ten years. 


I'm grateful for the complete strangers who stopped and helped when my sweet dog was hit by a truck.


Another stranger drove us to the emergency care because I didn't have the car that day.  I'm extremely grateful to her.  


I'm grateful for kind neighbors and friends who have expressed their condolences and sympathy and are generally great all the time.


Especially grateful for the neighbor who took care of my children while I left to be with my dog. 

Again I'm grateful for my husband and father-in-law who dug a grave in the dark and cold and for the sweet prayer uttered over her body.

I'm grateful to know I'm a daughter of God and that I'll see my loved ones again someday.

Finally, I'm grateful for all of you - my blogging and writing friends.  Thank you for the wonderful advice and encouragement that you share with all of us everyday.  Thank you for taking time to comment on my blog.


Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

3 comments:

Juju at Tales of Whimsy.com said...

Oh sweetheart. I'm grateful for your sweet blog and honest words.
God bless you. I know you will see your sweet baby again. *hugs*

Mary said...

Thank you Juju. You're always so sweet.

Bethany Wiggins said...

Happy Thanksgiving!